For any wife out there who eagerly desires to change herself & her marriage for the better, I *highly* recommend Debi Pearl's book, "Created to be His Helpmeet".
This is by far, the BEST book for wives (Christian or not) I have ever read, and has been such a tremendous blessing to me. Even if you already have a "good" marriage, this book will show you how to take your marriage to a new level...a glorious, blessed level! With the wisdom packed into this book's pages, along with the Holy Spirit's guidance, you can become a treasured, cherished wife---the perfect helpmeet for your man.
Debi Pearl has included a chapter on the 3 different types of men (Mr. Command, Mr. Visionary & Mr. Steady) to aid you in discovering which one *your* hubby is, and how to best adapt yourself to his needs. (Mine is a Mr. Steady, by the way--Grin!) This is foundational to a blissful marriage. You must understand your husband, his needs, his strengths & his weaknesses before you can possibly suit yourself to him.
You can buy a copy of this book directly from No Greater Joy ministries or through my friend Crystal's store at Biblical Womanhood Online. (*And if you order by this Monday, the 18th via Biblical Womanhood, you can take advantage of special pricing ONLY available through them. Don't miss out as this is a one time opportunity!)
May your marriages be made in heaven!